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These are all ways to show interest in a person without needing to write an email, or put any effort in whatsoever. So instead of lazy and scared, send an email that is ballsy and unique. The first time I thought of doing this it seemed like a pretty good idea...
Write one witty email, mail it to a hundred different girls and see how many nibbles you get.
by Jake Vandenhoff If you've tried out a big online dating website like match.com, then you've seen that there really are some hot, quality women on there.
However, just like out in the real world, it can be hard to figure out what to say to a woman to get an interaction with her going on the right foot.